The most difficult part of caring for my elderly parents is to know when they should no longer be independent and when I should step in and do everything for them, because they won't ask for help. And if they don't ask for help, that's when they can hurt themselves.
So I take it one day at a time, evaluate each day differently from the day before. Then step in and approach them carefully as to not offend them, especially my father. It's harder for him to give up his independence than it is for my mother.
If you are a caregiver, this blog is a tool to help you possibly understand some of the trials and tribulations that you may be experiencing. For me, this is definitely an area of uncharted waters, and I am learning every day and want to share with other caregivers. If you have your own personal experiences, please feel free to share by adding a post. Picture is my Father and my Mother on the day of my wedding, March 22, 2008.
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